Let's talk about sex
Feb 22, 2018
Let's start an honest discussion about sex
So much connection can happen during sex: it feels great, happy brain chemicals are released, and healing skin to skin contact occurs. For highly attuned couples, sex becomes a potent exchange of mind, body, and spirit which creates bonding and the experience of oneness. This is good stuff I tell you!
Yet, after years of marriage and kids, and being with one partner for a long time, some couples say they have lost interest in having sex with each other.
On the other hand, other couples who have been married and monogamous for decades or more say sex gets better and better.
On the other hand, other couples who have been married and monogamous for decades or more say sex gets better and better.
Studies show that couples are the most satisfied with their sex life, talk about sex...
What they like
What they don't like
What they want to try
What they don't want to try
What makes them uncomfortable
And what their fantasies are.
The focus of this blog post is centered on how to start talking about...
How to get her in bed (after marriage and kids)
Feb 20, 2018
What happens when one partner wants sex and his or her long-term partner is rarely in the mood?
A healthy sex life is a part of what makes up a thriving relationship. When one or both partners are feeling unsatisfied in this area, this can trigger the beginning of a downward spiral that does not end up very well.
A Newsweek article stated that 15% to 20% of couples who are married with kids have sex less than 10 times a year. This translates to around 20 million couples who are not having much sex.
Many couples report wanting a better sex life. With children, careers, lack of sleep, endless household duties, financial pressures, and all of the other energy drainers that come with modern family life, sexual desire can begin to fade away. This is normal. But normal does not necessarily mean acceptable.
Problems arise when one wants it more or the other wants it less. And if you become complacent, your sex life is unlikely to change.
No more keeping score
Outside of role...